OopsCupid guide · 9 minutes

Hot and Cold

Why the guy who confuses you is the one you can't stop thinking about, and how to break the spell.

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What's inside

The slot machine in your phone
Intermittent reinforcement, explained
Why calm feels boring
What's going on with him
How to break the spell

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