OopsCupid guide · 7 minutes

Clueless or Careless?

Is he genuinely oblivious, or just not paying attention to you? How to tell, and what to say.

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The ketchup problem
Why hints don't work
Clueless vs careless
How to talk to a clueless man
If it's careless

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